40w2d: Not yet... :(

16.5 h of labor and everything slowed down. My midwife said I may be one of those 2 day labor people. I am definitely at least 3 cm, maybe more, as I felt it myself when I was laboring in the aqua doula. But they (midwifes) don't come that early unless something is wrong so I don't know for sure. Now the contractions are 20-30 min apart. :/ They said the goal now is to rest. If it picks up, great, if not, we will wait. The contractions are pretty painful, so the fact that they are getting more spaced out is really annoying. How long is it going to last? I am getting really tired. :(